
Join us for Gay by Nature, a nourishing retreat for gay men by gay men.
May 30th - June 1st
connect, reflect, and rediscover the joy of brotherhood in the heart of
Just Love forest.
Start Pride Month by filling your cup with nature, connection, and a whole lot of gay joy—because radiant health and deep rejuvenation never go out of style. 🏳️🌈✨
Gay by Nature is a heart-centered retreat for gay men who long for connection beyond the noise—an invitation to slow down, breathe deeply, and remember the beauty of being fully ourselves in the company of brothers. Set within the sacred stillness of Just Love Forest, this weekend offers spaciousness, laughter, and real talk around the fire. We’ll hike to Bhakti Mountain, share nourishing plant-based meals, and swim in wild waters. But most of all, we’ll gather to explore what it means to be gay and whole in a world that often misunderstands us. Through honest conversations, quiet reflection, and shared adventure, we’ll co-create a space where friendship, tenderness, and strength can grow—without performance, without pressure. Just truth. Just love. Just us.
☀️ Gay by Nature Retreat Schedule 💦
Where forest meets friendship. A soulful, heart-forward nature retreat for gay men.
Optional Early Arrival – Thursday
Arrive anytime after 5:00 PM
Land gently, set up your tent, wander the forest trails
6:30 PM – Pre-Treat Dinner (plant-based and heart-warming)
8:00 PM – Welcome Fire
A soft landing into the weekend — no rush, no pressure, just presence.
Friday – Rooting Into Connection
4:00 PM – Early Arrival Window Opens
7:00 PM – Main Arrival Window
8:00 PM – Dinner
Post-Dinner – Fire Circle with optional singing and instruments
A cozy forest welcome and gentle landing into the circle of kin.
Saturday – Wild Heart, Deep Soul
7:30 AM – Optional Silent Forest Meditation with Bala
8:30 AM – Breakfast
9:30 AM – Gather for hike to Bhakti Mountain
10:30 AM–12:00 PM – Forest Therapy at the summit (quiet, tender, and sensory)
12:00–1:00 PM – Picnic Lunch + Free Time
2:00–4:00 PM – Free Time (rest, journal & hammock hang)
5:00 PM – Yoga with Jimmy (stretch, flow, smile)
7:00 PM – Dinner
8:00 PM-ish – Evening Session: Love & Levity or Dive Deep
(We’ll follow the vibe—whether lighthearted laughs or soulful truths, we meet in authenticity.)
Sunday – Integration & Celebration
8:00 AM – Optional Morning Meditation
8:30 AM – Breakfast
9:30 AM – Personal Solo Time in the Forest (a gentle guided invitation to be alone, yet not alone)
11:30 AM – Closing Circle
12:30 PM – Lunch
1:30 PM – Optional Caravan to Little River Canyon
(An afternoon adventure to hike, swim, or simply bask in beauty—bring your towel, swimsuit, and curiosity.)
Return home whenever your heart feels full.
YOUR RETREAT AWAITS
Retreat Amenities
⚘ 3 Days + 2 Nights Accommodations* in your own single queen or twin mattress bell tent, plus enjoy group activities and meals all weekend:
⚘ 6 Nourishing Plant-Based Meals
⚘ Beautiful Yurt Gathering Space
⚘ Personal Time for Reflection + Heartfelt Connection
⚘ Inclusive Community with Experienced Guides and Spiritual Seekers of All Levels
*Early Arrival (optional): Arrive Thursday @ 5 PM instead of Friday and enjoy a pre-treat dinner, fire circle and accommodations for $150+tax
Registration for
Gay by Nature
Twin Nylon Bell Tent (pic below)
$600 plus tax
Deluxe Queen Bell Tent (pic below)
$800 plus tax
Self Camping (you bring your own tent)
$400 plus tax
+ add-on*
Early Check in
May 29th @ 5 PM
$150 plus tax - includes pre-retreat dinner, fire circle and accommodations
Payment plan & financial support options are available. Please contact bala@justloveforest.com with your questions.
Nylon Tee Pee with inflatable Twin
Deluxe Canvas Bell with tempurpedic Queen
Check in Time
Friday May 30th @ 4pm or 7pm
Check out Time
Sunday June 1st @ 1:30 PM
*Early Check In Time
Thursday May 29th @ 5 PM
Meet your teachers
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Bala
I came to meditation during a season of upheaval—one of those moments when life cracks you open and invites you to listen more deeply. A profound experience seven years ago shifted everything, and I began to see the world through new eyes. What followed was a year of immersive study with teachers across traditions, from the quiet hills of Encinitas to the sacred lands of India.
Eventually, I was blessed to sit with Ram Dass and Jack Kornfield—two souls whose presence and teachings anchored my path. I felt called to share this work, to help others find a sense of purpose, alignment, and connection in the midst of everyday life.
I completed the two-year Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program through Jack Kornfield and Tara Brach, in partnership with the Awareness Training Institute and UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center. Alongside that training, I engaged in a six-month DEIA (Diversity, Equity, Inclusivity, and Accountability) intensive to better hold space for all people, all identities, and all stories.
My offerings are rooted in presence, kindness, and deep listening. I create spaces where people can slow down, tune in, and reconnect with their own inner wisdom—through forest therapy, guided meditation, and simply being in community.
I live in the forest with my husband and our beloved dog, Winnie. I’m honored to be here with you as we welcome Pride Month—not just with celebration, but with intention, healing, and heart.
— Bala
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Jimmy Urciuoli
“I discovered yoga in 2012 after an injury left me searching for a path to heal. What started as physical recovery quickly became something deeper—a lifeline for my mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. As an addict in recovery, I’ve leaned on both yoga and nature as powerful tools for healing, regulation, and reconnection—with myself, with others, and with something bigger.
Since completing my 200-hour Yoga Teacher Certification in 2013, I’ve led over 1,700 yoga sessions for people from all walks of life. My style is grounded in breath, intention, and deep listening. I specialize in yin and slow, breath-focused vinyasa that invites students to come as they are and move with presence. My classes are trauma-informed, inclusive, and heart-centered—spaces where people can drop the mask and reconnect to their body, breath, and their truth.
Outside of the studio, I serve as the Executive Director of Green Steps, a grassroots environmental nonprofit working to end litter and expand access to clean, healthy outdoor spaces in the greater Chattanooga region. I’m also active in LGBTQ+ advocacy, and I’m passionate about creating spaces where queer folks—especially gay men—can gather in nature, feel safe in their bodies, and celebrate their wholeness.
I believe that yoga and the outdoors are medicine, and I’m honored to share both at this retreat as we kick off Pride Month. Whether you’re here to rest, connect, or reimagine what’s possible, I hope our time together helps you feel a little more free, a little more grounded, and a lot more loved.”
Jimmy Urciuoli
200 E-RYT
Our IntentionS in offering this space
This retreat is an invitation to begin Pride Month in the company of kindred spirits—gathered in the forest to rest, reflect, and reconnect. Over the span of three days, we’ll live simply and intentionally, surrounded by nature and supported by a loving community.
There is no single path, no required belief system. What brings us together is a shared desire to live with open hearts, to nourish our well-being, and to be in honest connection with ourselves and each other. The forest holds us as we slow down, breathe deeply, and tune into what matters most.
Rather than being led from the front, this retreat is guided by the group itself—each participant bringing their own medicine. While there will be moments of meditation, yoga, forest walks, and group sharing, the heart of the retreat is the space we create together. Like a tribe, we offer each other encouragement, insight, and presence as we move through the weekend.
We walk gently on the land, honoring the forest as a living partner in our experience. Through “wild tending,” we engage with the natural world not only with awe, but with care and reciprocity. We gather not only to recharge—but to remember that we are part of something greater, and we belong.
At its core, this retreat is about living authentically, connecting deeply, and supporting one another in becoming more fully ourselves. It’s about showing up—joyful, tender, messy, beautiful—and being met with love.
“i would like my life to be statement of love and compassion - and where it isn’t, that’s where my work lies.”
Ram Dass